Tuesday, February 23, 2010

The Man I Married

Today I had a rough start.

Things just got worse when my therapy appointment
had to be canceled for an emergency.

I tried to pick a fight with my man
while he was at work
we were talking on the phone.

I am not proud of THIS.

He, my man, he came home and took me to lunch
and totally didn't even bring it up.


15 comments:

  1. i'm sorry you had a rough day yesterday. it sounds like your husband made it better though. that's so comforting, when people who love us continue to do so even when we don't feel our best.

    hope today goes better!

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  2. I love it when my husband does something loving when I least expect it. Hugs.

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  3. I understand that, for sure. It sadly is true we take out our fears and emotions on those closest to us, huh? I think the safer they are to our heart, the more they end up seeing. Take care, sweet cyber friend, and have a blessed day.

    ang

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  4. BTW...thanks for posting the song in my arms in your playlist. I just listened to it for the first time. I love plumb, and have never heard this song. I never had a parent that would've sang it to me, though i think my mother planned on not being as sick as she ended up being at one time and would've wished she could've sang it. Instead, I picture Jesus holding me and being supportive of my healing process. crap. that brought a tear and i need to be "on" for a business meeting any minute. oh well. I can sacrifice a tear. Anyway, thanks and blessings. ang

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  6. I glad your husband was able to see past the surface and meet your deeper needs without being asked. I hope your next therapy appointment goes really well....

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  7. That is so sweet. I know that I myself take a great deal of things out on my husband at times as well because my world seems to fall apart. It's comforting to know that he understands where my mood swings are coming from, but it's also not fair for him to have to be the one I aim my anger at. I am so happy that you have such a special man looking after you as well. I'm hoping to be back to blogging tomorrow. We got our computer on a temporary fix right now. Hope your day continues to get better my friend! :o)

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  8. I'll take you rough day over the last two days that I have been having.way too many seizures.

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  9. This rough day of yours turned out quite comforting and great. Your husband was loving to you when you didnt where loving to yourself. Vicki, dear, please be gentle with yourself. There are days like that as we are HUMAN and your husband has given you in that moment what you couldnt do for yourself. I feel it would be great to accept it as such. the help you needed was given. Love to you from my heart to yours

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  10. Passing by to show some love and wishing you a calm weekend with this husband of yours :-)))

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  11. Your husband was so loving!! Hope you have a better day!

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  12. I hate when my therapist cancels my appointment for an emergency. Doesn't she realize my life is an emergency too? Ha. You have a keeper in that hubby of yours. Awesome guy.

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  13. Passing by and wonder if you are doing ok. My time in Florida is running our already. It felt nice to be so much closer to Arizona and many of my bloggie friends. Be kind to yourself. Hugs, Paula

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  14. What a lovely, lovely thing to have happened. In my worst pain I too get grumpy with my man. He is not that good at distancing from it. His grumpiness back confirms what I am thinking, that I am no good. It is a vicious circle that is difficult to break. I am now able to say 'this pain isn't me, I'm sorry, can you help me?'. We are patching ourselves up bit by bit. Lots of love to you and your family.

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